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Margaret Murray, 86, Mansura

Margaret Murray, eighty-six years of age, transitioned into eternal life on July 16, 2020, at Avoyelles Hospital after her ten-day battle with COVID-19.

Margaret was born on March 17, 1934, in Mansura, Louisiana, to Wallace and Berda Dupas. She was the seventh of thirteen children, and effortlessly became her mother’s, Momma Bird, kitchen helper. With a keen ability to easily grasp understanding in the kitchen, Margaret first learned on a wood-fire stove how to transform farm grown cattle, hogs, chickens, venison, gator meat, rabbit, turtle, frog legs, duck, and other wild animals into gourmet feasts fit for kings. Her life was the epitome of all-natural, organic, clean eating and living that is in high fashion today.

Margaret met and later wed the love of her life, Jerome Walker Murray Sr., also known as Boonie, on July 21, 1951. Together, Grete and Boonie raised eleven children. Their first home was located on the Cocoville Highway. However, in 1973, Boonie and Grete moved to their home on Prairie Heights Lane with her sister, Josephine, and family living next door. Margaret and Jerome celebrated 68 years of marriage, displaying their unwavering belief in their commitment to one another and above all—their commitment to God.

Margaret believed in being punctual. In fact, she never needed an alarm clock because she said, “God wakes me up every morning, and I have never been late.” July 21, 2020 would have marked Grete’s 69th wedding anniversary with her beloved Boonie. In keeping with tradition, she was not late, as God allowed her arrival into heaven to join her beloved husband before their celebratory date.

Margaret’s husband raised the hogs, planted the crop, fished, and hunted, as Grete tended to her chickens and most importantly, tended to her children. Margaret’s fame as a renowned chef, confectioner, and bread maker quickly spread throughout her hometown of Mansura, as she could appease any appetite at any hour of the day. She did not believe in turning away hungry a man, woman, or child: she always fed them.

She was not a person to hold onto things. Margaret, lovingly called Ma’mee by her grandchildren and great-grandchildren, loved to share. This was evident in how she cooked and fed her family and friends. Ma’mee would ship cookies to Iraq for her grandsons, bake cakes for fairs, bake cakes to sell and give away during holidays, and she even garnered Melissa, her youngest daughter, a blue ribbon for having the most delectable cake. Without fail, every Sunday there was a dessert to be found on her table, and nearly every morning before sunrise, she would shuffle (without rushing) in her kitchen to knead and fry her famous Lundybuff.

An evening ritual for Margaret was to gather her children to kneel around the bed for prayers. Everything she received in this life, she prayed and the Lord provided in His time. She was a woman who knew how to savor every moment much like those who savored her delectable home cooked meals and sweet treats. She cooked well with steadfast assurance in her gift given by God to bless those whom she loved most: her children, her husband, extended family members, and her community at large.

Margaret provided domestic assistance to several households, which needed her expertise. She worked as a Nurse’s Assistant at Valley View Nursing Home for 30 years, and faithfully attended Our Lady of Prompt Succor Catholic Church for 68 years. She had the pleasure of traveling from Louisiana to Alaska and various other locations throughout the United States to visit her children and grandchildren. After her years of service to others, her final days were spent living like a queen in luxury at the Oakmont Estates assisted living facility. She loved her spacious room that boasted of a sitting room, bathroom, and spacious bedroom. Margaret no longer had to worry about cleaning or even sweetening her coffee—it was done for her. Andrew, her son, lovingly hung her treasured 8x10 graduation photographs of all eleven children on the left wall, like it was done at home.

Margaret was proceeded in death by her husband, Jerome Walker Murray Sr.; daughter, Brenda Metz (Mike); father, Wallace Dupas; mother, Berda (Sampson) Dupas; sister, Josephine Batiste; brother, John Adam Dupas; sister, Mary Jane Dupas; brother, Augustine Dupas; sister, Mary Clara Pembric; brother, Andrew Wilson Dupas; sister, Theresa Margie Linden; and brother, Robert Dupas Sr. She is survived by her sister, Madeline White; sister, Rosalie D. Chark; sister, Bernice Dupas; sister, Mary Ruth Prier, sons, Jerome Murray Jr. (Deloris), Bernard Murray (Marshell), George Murray, Andrew Murray (Stephanie), and Ronald Murray (Tritonya); daughters, Cheryl Nicholas (Larry), Diane Murray, Linda Newman (Don), Cindy Murray, and Melissa Zenon (Willie), 24 grandchildren, 18 great-grandchildren, and 2 great-great-grandchildren. All of these she loved deeply, which was evident by the generous hospitality that Grete afforded each time her and Boonie’s door opened or their doorbell rang.

Entombment for Margaret (Dupas) Murray will be 11:00am, Friday, July 24, 2020, at St. Paul Mausoleum.

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